用法语和用中文搜索“帅哥”的结果。

就没有人说说跟长相无关的审美槽点吗？！我觉得整个美国对于颜色的差异审美都是个bug!!!!

比如我昨天买回来的橡皮筋:

好吧其实这还是一堆粉的蓝的绿的里面最好看的，起码我能勉强自己戴头上。体现

可是东方下面这些，真的和西是往脑袋上戴的吗？！！审美

拿着这一堆东西，我很好奇他们为什么没破产：

然后还有他们对粉色的概念就是真的粉色，比如这样的东方粉:

尤其黑人姐姐们，尤其胖黑人姐姐们，和西最爱穿亮粉色的审美裙子，而且还喜欢裹身的差异那种……

再来一波闪瞎眼配色：

粉配蓝，蓝配绿，体现绿配粉，没有他们配不到，只有你想不到真的，而且好像生怕不够难看似的，每个颜色都精准地选用最难看的色系。我就问问你你愿意买吗

在美国呆了3年后，我觉得我的审美已经严重退化跑偏，有时候会惊恐地发现自己开始喜欢亮绿色的衣服了！悲伤

我只能责怪自己之前太没有时尚感，也许这才是审美主流吧

你们随便转载，只要不怕伤害双眼

我是一个白人女孩，在中国生活了将近两年。在我来这里期间，我注意到白人女孩的美丽标准与中国女孩的美丽标准有很大的不同。

例如，有一个非常著名的中国模特叫吕燕。许多白人认为她超级漂亮，因为对他们来说，她看起来如此与众不同。但我认为按照中国人的美容标准，她不是很漂亮。

最近我把她的照片作为中国模特的一个例子发布在网上，很多中国人质问我为什么要用一个丑陋的中国女孩的照片。。。

中西方美容标准最大的区别之一就是偏爱的肤色。中国女孩喜欢白皮肤。无论是下雨、多云还是晴天，他们都会用雨伞。在欧洲，除非下雨，否则我从未见过有人带伞。白人女孩从不躲阳光。如果你的皮肤是苍白的，人们会不断地问你是否生病，并告诉你多出去走走，这样你就能晒成棕褐色。晒黑的女孩被认为是理想的。

西方国家对白皙皮肤的看法也大相径庭。如果你说你喜欢白皙皮肤的女孩，很多人会被冒犯并称你为种族主义者。如果你说你喜欢白皙皮肤的亚洲女孩也没用。白皮肤总是和种族主义联系在一起，说你更喜欢白皮肤是完全不能接受的。所以你不会看到关于美白产品的广告，但是你会看到很多关于晒黑霜的广告。

中国女孩喜欢的另一件事是双眼皮圆圆的大眼睛。另一方面，白人女孩根本不在乎双眼皮。其实来中国之前我都不知道“双眼皮”是什么意思。白人女孩喜欢用能使眼睛看起来更长和倾斜的化妆品。它叫狐狸眼。

事实上，很多人都说这种新趋势是对亚洲人的种族歧视，因为狐狸眼和亚洲人天生的眼睛很相似，因此他们被嘲笑和取笑。但是现在，无论是通过化妆还是整形手术，白人得到这种类型的眼睛是一种时尚。所以人们说这对亚洲人很不公平。

虽然我能理解为什么中国女孩喜欢大眼睛，但有一个趋势我永远无法理解—高鼻子。外国人不知道什么是高鼻子。我们只知道大鼻子和小鼻子，每个人都想有小鼻子。即使是已经有了小鼻子的女孩也会用化妆品让鼻子看起来更小。在中国，女孩们实际上会把鼻子弄得更高。我看过中国女孩的照片，心里想：“她为什么要展示她的那个部分？她不应该那样做，她的鼻子太大了。” 我不知道在中国人们真的喜欢这样。很可能鼻子是假的。。真是难以置信。如果我没有亲眼看到，我永远不会相信这是真的。

中国女孩通常只在嘴唇的靠中心部位使用唇膏，嘴唇会变小。我看到一些中国美女相机，我看到它们可以改变你的嘴唇。所以我就想“哦，也许它能让我的嘴唇变大”，所以我试了一下，它实际上让你的嘴唇变小了。。搞什么鬼。

没有一个外国女孩会使用这样的应用程序。这没道理。所有的白人女孩都想要更大的嘴唇。白人女孩会用唇彩笔把嘴唇画得更大。对白人女孩来说嘴唇越大越好。很多时候它在图片中看起来很好，但在现实生活中却很不自然。

一切都是从凯莉·格纳开始的。她天生就有一双薄嘴唇，但她做了唇部注射，使嘴唇变大，并因此成名。所以今天很多女孩都会注射唇部来让自己的嘴唇变大。最近变得非常正常了。

你的脸型在中国很重要。在中国，理想的脸型是v型，女孩们会不择手段地实现它。我看过一些特殊的练习和不同的面具，它们可以把你的下巴轮廓塑造成你想要的样子。

中国人最不喜欢的是方脸。白人很不一样。他们认为任何脸型的女孩都可以很漂亮。但他们最喜欢方形的脸。所有最有名最漂亮的顶级模特都有方脸。白人认为方形的下颚线使脸部更引人注目。所以任何类型的脸都可以是美丽的，但是如果女孩有一个正方形的下颚线，白人会认为她特别漂亮。

说到身体。中国女孩喜欢瘦。中国美女标准是一个很瘦的女孩。对于白人来说，理想的女孩是沙漏形的，或者最近最流行的是小腰宽臀。在中国，我看过一些关于如何让你的大腿变得更小更细的运动视频。

白人女孩永远不会在意这些运动，她们渴望这种表情。他们吃很多食物，去健身房举重，甚至做整形手术把脂肪转移到屁股上，只是为了不瘦。

拥有一个大屁股是当今所有白人女孩的主要目标，她们会不惜一切代价来实现这个目标。这种痴迷也要归功于卡戴珊/詹纳家族。他们都有假屁股。

所以，是的，在白人和中国人眼中的美丽有很多不同之处，有时实际上恰恰相反。在来中国之前，我从来没有想到世界上会有这样一个国家，女孩们会故意把自己的皮肤变白，鼻子变高，嘴巴变小，然后她们会被认为更漂亮。对白人来说这听起来难以置信。但我认为中国人看到西方的美容标准时，也会摇头表示不相信。但是我不认为我们应该互相批评，我相信我们必须接受不同的文化喜欢不同的东西。

I'm a white girl that has been living in China for almost two years. During the time Ive been here I've noticed the beauty standards for white girls are very different compared to beauty standards for Chinese girls.

For example there is a very famous Chinese model named Lv Yan. Many white people think she is super beautiful because to them she looks so exocit and different. But I think according to Chinese beauty standards she is not very pretty. Recently I've posted her pictures online as an example of Chinese models and many Chinese people were asking me why am I using pictures of an ugly Chinese girl...

One of the biggest differences in Chinese and western beauty standards is the preferred skin color. Chinese girls like white skin. They will use umbrellas no matter if it's rainy, cloudy or sunny day. In Europe I have never seen anyone with an umbrella unless it was raining. White girls would never hide themselves from the sun. If your skin is pale white people will keep asking you if you are sick and telling you to go outside more so you can get some tan. Tanned girls are seen as the ideal. Also the view of white skin in western countries is very different. If you say you like girls with white skin many people will get offended and call you racist. It doesn't matter if you say you like Asian girls with white skin. White skin is always associated with racism and it's just completely unacceptable to say that you prefer white skin. So you will never see any advertising for whitening products but you will see lots of them for self tanning lotions.

Another thing Chinese girls like are big round eyes with double eyelids. White girls on the other hand don't care about double eyelids at all. Actually before coming to China I didn't even know what "double eyelids" mean. White girls like using makeup that makes their eyes look longer and slanted. It's called called fox eyes. Many people were actually saying this new trend is racist towards Asian people because fox eyes resemble the type of eyes Asian people have naturally and for which they have been mocked and made fun of. But nowadays it's a fashion for white people to get these type of eyes whether by makeup or plastic surgery. So people say it's very unfair to Asian people.

While I can understand why Chinese girls like big eyes, there is one trend I can never understand. High nose. Foreigners don't know what is high nose. We only know big nose and small nose and everyone wants to have smaller nose. Even the girls who already have a small nose will use makeup to make it look even smaller. In China girls will actually make their noses bigger/higher. I've seen pictures of girls in China and I was thinking to myself" why is she showing her profile?? she shouldn't do that, her nose is too big." I had no idea in China people actually like this. And most likely the nose is actually fake.. really unbelievable. If I haven't seen it with my own eyes I would never believe that this is true.

Chinese girls will often use lipstick only in the centre part of their lips which optically makes their lips smaller. I saw some Chinese beauty cameras and I've seen they can change your lips. So I was like "oh maybe it could make my lips bigger" so I tried it and it actually makes your lips smaller.. What the heck. No foreign girl would ever use such app. It makes no sense. All white girls want bigger lips.

White girls will use lip pencil to draw their lips much bigger. To white girls the bigger lips the better. Often times it looks good in pictures but very unnatural in real life. It all started with Kylie Gener. She had a thin lips naturally but she got lip injection to make them bigger and became famous thanks to that. So today many many girls get lip injections to make their lips bigger. It became extremely normal these days.

The shape of your face is very important in China. In China the ideal face shape is v shape and girls will do anything to achieve it. I've seen special exercises and different masks that can shape your jawline into the desired look. The one shape Chinese people like the least is square face. White people are very different. They think girls with any face shape can be beautiful. But they like square shape of face the most. All of the most famous and beautiful top models have square face. White people think square jawline makes the face more striking. So any type of face can be beautiful but if the girl has a square jawline white people will think she is especially beautiful.

When it comes to body. Chinese girls like to be skinny. Chinese beauty standard is a very skinny girl. For white people the ideal girl is hourglass shaped or recently the most popular shape is small waist and wide hips. In China I've seen videos with exercises how to make your thighs smaller and slimer. White girls would never care about these exercises, they desire this look. They eat a lot of food, go to gym to lift heavy weights even get plastic surgery to transfer fat to their butt just to not be skinny. To have a big butt is the main goal for all white girls nowadays and they would do anything to achieve it. This obsession is also thanks to the Kardashian/Jenner family. They all have fake butts.

So yeah there are many many differences in what white and Chinese people consider beautiful, sometimes it is actually the exact opposite. Before coming to China I would have never expected there is a country in the world where girls will whiten their skin, make their noses bigger and their mouth smaller on purpose and then they will be considered more beautiful. To white people it sounds unbelievable. But I think Chinese people will also just shake their heads in disbelief when they see western beauty standards. But I don't think we should criticize each other, I believe we just have to accept that different cultures like different things.

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我是一个来自那不勒斯的意大利人。

对于这个问题，我讲讲自己的经历和感受。

来到中国教音乐后，很多中国朋友认为我长得帅，长得有点像洛基的扮演者汤姆•希德勒斯顿，我感谢大家的认可。因为在意大利，大家认为我的长相是普通水平。这就牵涉到东西方对男性不同的审美观。

我认为某个民族的审美有个平均最大值，即大多数人认可的审美品味。那些当红的电影明星可以拿来参考。（很多在好莱坞发展的明星不一定都是美国人，比如像科林•法瑞尔是爱尔兰人、汤姆•希德勒斯顿是英国人）

我总结一下这些男明星的吸引人的长相特征：壮硕有形的身材、棱角分明的面孔。大家如果观察一下那些古希腊神话中的英雄雕像，也都是有这些特征。

好了，我再拿漫威电影的男明星举例。首先，我认为美国队长的扮演者克里斯•埃文斯颜值可以排第一。他在电影里那个裸体镜头让女演员海莉·阿特维尔都情不自禁地去触碰了一下他的胸肌。

自此之后，克里斯•埃文斯成了西方女孩最喜欢的性幻想对象。很多女孩懒得搞清楚漫威电影的庞大世界观，也不怎么关心这帮人打来打去到底是为了什么。她们只想看克里斯•埃文斯穿上那套紧身衣后那凸现出来的圆翘屁股。

克里斯•埃文斯某一次将自己的某处私密照片上传到了社交平台上，虽然很快被删了。但我确切地知道有很多西方女孩传播并保存了这张照片。

这是我姐姐告诉我的，她也有一张。

接下来便是比较有争议的雷神托尔的扮演者克里斯•海姆斯沃斯，很多中国女士认为他留胡子的长相太有攻击性。但在欧洲，至少在我的朋友圈中，他的受欢迎程度好于汤姆•希德勒斯顿。

所以我对中国为代表的东亚审美的总结是：男性帅气的标准是长相不能有攻击性，要秀气，身高要在180cm以上。

说到身高，又要提到一个有争议的人物：汤姆•哈迪。

汤姆•哈迪的身高在175cm左右。很多中国人普遍认为西方男人的身高普遍在180cm以上，其实不是这样。德国、荷兰、瑞典这些北欧国家有很多男人身高在180cm以上，但在南欧，男人的平均身高和中国南方男人的平均身高差不多。我187cm的身高在那不勒斯已经很高了。

汤姆•哈迪对西方女孩的致命吸引力在于他身上那种自然散发的“坏男孩”气质。注意，这种“坏男孩”气质并不是一味的粗野和不尊重女性，而是一种亦正亦邪的气场，而且汤姆•哈迪无论在电影中还是在生活中，衣品还是很不错的。

这种“坏男孩”气质比克里斯•埃文斯的肌肉还难养成。有些人刻意模仿反而弄巧成拙。

由此可见，西方对于男子的审美非常注重男性气概。因为意大利男人在西方的刻板印象是娘炮，所以很多男孩长大后会留胡子。但我根据在中国的观察，这边的女性对男人留胡子的接受度不高。

当然，也有一些西方女生会喜欢Kpop中的男星长相，但很多西方女生对这种长相感觉一般。比如像我姐姐，她就表示绝不会和这类男生约会，因为不想给人一种有恋童癖的印象。

（感谢我的中国朋友大头翻译我的口述/Grazie mille）

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